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Teens in Crises Sermon at St. Paul’s

Today I preached a sermon on the issue of teens in crisis and how the times are changing. It is true that in the 1950s the biggest issues facing teens were much different than those of today. Teens today face a myriad of issues that weren’t even imaginable fifty, forty, thirty or even twenty years ago.

Teens are bombarded with media and the pressure to perform has never been greater. Whether it is in the classroom, the athletic field, the band hall or even the church youth room, teens are more likely to have as much pressure placed on them (or more) than adults today.

Many teens handle the pressure well because of the relationships they have built with adults and friends who share their belief system. Unfortunately many teens do not have these built in systems and fall prey to: violence, drugs, sex, self – loathing and become gang members, drug users, pregnant or even worse, take their own lives.
There is hope in a this world, but the cost is not easy. What is the cost? The cost is too great for some to bear, the cure is time. Time with your teen and others.

Years ago the phrase quality time was introduced into the American lexicon. The meaning was that if you didn’t have a lot of time, the time you did have had to count. Expensive or lavish outings were the cure for the busy parent. Research (official and my own anecdotal) shows this to be untrue. Teens, and for that matter all of us, relish time spent with those we most care about.

If we want to make a difference in the lives of those teens we know we must start with that simple sacrifice of time spent with them. We live in a society that has built walls around ourselves and thereby have isolated ourselves from each other. We must tear down those walls and become vulnerable and transparent to those we love. If we don’t the price is too dear to pay.

I mentioned several websites in my sermon today, here they are?
www.stpaulsyouth.ning.com
www.familyfirstaid.org
www.cdc.gov
www.fatherhood.org
www.savealifemovie.com

Our Visit to Mid – Cities

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Today we visited a large church, Mid-Cities Community Church,  midway between Odessa and Midland, Texas.  It is a beautiful church, done in old European style.  You enter in through a foyer passing a round statue and sitting area just outside the doors.  You are greeted by several folks (a bit overdone) wishing you a good day in a sincere way.  Oh, the parking lot is well staffed with friendly traffic helpers.  We asked where visitors park and were told, “Wherever you want to”.

We were a few minutes early so visited a sitting area that was full of coffee, juice, donuts and other breakfast items and plenty of people partaking in this bounty.  There was a flat screened television in this room, as well as the foyer, that had news and announcments as well as a countdown as to when the next service was to begin.  I especially liked that part, as it gave an idea of what was next.

As it was Easter the sanctuary was very full.  We had ten people with us and no place where we all could find a place to sit together.  I asked one of the ushers if we could sit in the pew that was roped off, he said they were trying to push people forward since they were going to have a large crowd.  When I told him our number he readily agreed to let us sit in the pew that was roped off in the back.

The music was led by a song leader and orchestra that have to have had at least 25 members.  The music was excellent, but for me it felt more like a performance than a worship experience.  It was a typical evangelical service in many ways as we sang three songs, shook hands with our neighbor next to us and heard a sermon.

The sermon was 25 minutes and was good, but not great.  It being Easter I was surprised there was not more emphasis placed on non-believers than believers.  The message made an assumption we knew why you would want to be a Christian, rather than explaining how and why.  There was an attempt made to show how Christ could change your life with a cardboard sign display at the end.  I have seen this many times before and thought it “tired” but my kids quickly corrected me and told me it was “awesome” and they loved it.

Overall it was enjoyable, but was not a moving experience, or even one that provoked much thought.  It did evoke emotion, which is usually the goal in an evangelical and non-denominational church.  I thought it slightly manipulative toward the end with the use of personal cardboard signs.  We were asked to mimic those that carried large cardboard signs on stage with one side before Christ and the other sign after Christ.  We had miniature signs we were asked to fill out and share with a stranger or friend, awkward I think.

The service lasted 75 minutes.  It was done with excellence and attention to detail.  The use of media was good, not overdone, but certainly used to engage the audience.  If I were grading, I would give it a B plus.  If you are a big church fan you would feel right at home.  However if small churches are your thing, well you might feel a bit lost.

Next week a smaller church, maybe even Lutheran.  Until then, be blessed.

Slumdog Millionare a Winner

I just saw this year’s best picture. I wasn’t expecting what I saw, it was excellent. The images of the slums of India are striking! The director does an excellent job of making one feel as if they are there in the slum yourself, it was depressing.

I recommend the picture to anyone old enough to understand the meaning of value. As westerners it is hard to believe that anyone could live this way. Check it out when you get a chance, and as always, leave a comment. Not sure yet? Check out the trailer below.




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